Punishments are not strange in the BDSM world; they are fantasized about and cherished. However in every punishment, there should be sexual elements in them, this connects your submissive to know that it is part of their training. Punishments constantly reminds them that they are fully owned and under their masters control.
Listed below are 5 effective physical and non physical punishments you could try on your submissive.
– You can have them wear slave bells; the constant jingling of the bell reminds them of their submission.
When your sub breaks a rule, you could talk to her as punishment and make them speak in details about what they did and why it was wrong.
– Organism denial: this is quiet sexual, you could refuse to allow your sub play with their toys. Also you can deny them orgasm when they are close.
– Spanking: this is another effective way of punishing your submissive; you can spank their backside. It is not advisable, to spank on the head or other crucial parts of the body. The spanking has to be structured so your sub wouldn’t feel bad when spanked, and even gay spanking videos can be a turn on.
– Kneeling: you can also punish your sub by having them kneel down, you can also have them kneel on frozen peas, rice grains etc.
In conclusion, a good punishment should have at least a sexual element in it, and there should he guidelines on how it is done, start with punishments that are easy first, and if they prove ineffective, then you try others.